I had wanted to talk about this subject a while back.
Some friends brought it up.
I took that as a cue to go on to talk about it.

“Define your relationships. Don’t leave someone to guess how you really feel about them.”

Set boundaries that are sustainable.
For if you don’t, and anything changes, “the vibe” will change.. You’ll feel the other doesn’t care anymore.

You’ll feel led on over something that never really started.
But it’s not that they don’t care, it’s just that the time they allocated for you at a certain point was never time they could always afford to allocate for you.

Don’t play “couple” with someone you never intend to be a couple with.
Don’t start something you can’t finish.
EMOTIONS are not that smart.

You may in your mind claim you have nothing to do with someone, but stick close enough and your emotions will start building a fantasy without the permission of your mind.
Don’t start a fire you can’t quench,

Your mind might have a handle on logical reasoning but your heart doesn’t always reason logically.

Let me know in the comments section if this is something you would want me to write extensively on.
Cheers to learning more. Cheers to being more 🥂❤ ….